In this third part of reflections on Independence Day and the fireworks with which so many celebrate it, I’m thinking about responsibility.
Character with fireworks calls for responsibility – the 54th quality on our list of character traits. Anyone who uses or participates in using fireworks needs to exercise responsibility. Parents who allow teenagers to purchase and use fireworks need to teach those teenagers responsibility in using them. Parents who allow younger children to use fireworks are obligated to teach the same thing. We make this point today because of the U. S. A. Independence Day tomorrow, but it applies equally on New Year’s Eve, Guy Fawkes Day, or any other global celebration where fireworks are part of the festivities. Wherever you live, and whatever you celebrate with fireworks, responsibility is vital.
Even a small child can learn the meaning of this character trait. If you have a copy of Cubby Bear’s Big Responsibility, take time to read it with your children before setting off fireworks. It’s a great way to help youngsters 3 through 8 understand this important concept. Point out that the little bear had a job to do, and he had to do it as well as he was able. Then apply the story by telling your children clearly what jobs they have to do in regard to fireworks. Point out that they must do those jobs as well as they are able.
Responsibility is exercised by using fireworks safely. That’s part of the job. Safety begins with using only legal fireworks. It continues with fireworks being stored out of reach of small children and pets. Adults should supervise the use of fireworks, and be sure it is done only outdoors. Adults or mature teens should light fireworks.
Responsibility demands that we have water readily available for putting out accidental fires. It requires that we keep pets safe indoors, sedated if necessary, so they will not be frightened and harm themselves or run away. Responsibility is shown by lighting only one item at a time, never holding fireworks in the hand, and never relighting a “dud” that fails to perform.
Responsibility is exercised by soaking used fireworks in a bucket of water – and cleaning up the mess before you go to bed. It’s your obligation to be sure your street is not littered with red paper and charred cardboard the next morning.
Character with fireworks means responsibility of the type found in Date with Responsibility. It will be that kind of responsibility that accepts no excuses about the kids being too demanding, having too much fun, being in a hurry, or being too tired. It takes its obligations of safety and tidiness seriously, and performs those obligations to the best of its ability – even if it does mean sacrificing the fun you could have if you just “hang loose”.
If you live in the United States of America, I hope you will have an enjoyable Independence Day tomorrow. I hope you will be safe and happy. I hope you will take a moment also, to think about the Independence for which our nation’s forefathers exercised great responsibility. Perhaps it will inspire you to build greater measures of this trait in your life.
That’s the view from my chair. What’s your view?